What is the opposite personality type of someone with ASPD (antisocial personality disorder)?

Almost everyone in life can recover.

Funnily enough. And there's been a plethora of research about this [this is an inadvertent explanation for the aforementioned point]: the typical female pornography/literotica fantasy is generally of the ‘type’: werewolf, barrister, vampire, pirate, surgeon, billionaire… and yes, it is ‘common’ for the female to *fantasise* [NOTHING MORE is needed] - about this said of types. But what is underlying the theme is the MOST important component to understanding why ‘in life, we need a mixture of the good and the bad’ (you'll find out one day {particularly if you're a female} - when you meet someone truly bad) → as pertinent to this fantasy is: THE FEMALE is *initially* attracted by the ‘monster’ - however this is NOT their prima facie motivation or ‘desire’, rather it is → THEY SEEK [AND in the fantasy, indeed do believe they will]: to TAME the beast/monster - such that he will be her prince/king and be there *to fight of the REAL MONSTERS*.

Kk. Take care and GL!

Why is the French way to say please is "S'il te plaît" and not "Pour Favour" like Spanish and Portuguese "Per Favor" and Italian "Per Favore" in the Romance languages group?

(Was a bugger to upload… ffs… nfi if correct ‘order’).

This is NOT to say that ‘such a person’ is the ‘most desirable of personalities’ [from wherein your comparison is purely against a person with ASPD].

Except your female version of ASPD [BPD in females…] → these birds invariably require (although are never willing {also note: almost without question they have been victims of horrific trauma}) - long term residential therapeutic care.

Should I have left it alone and kept quiet? I came out as gay to my adult kids last week. Age 61 married 15 years, divorced for 20. I feel so guilty for ruining their lives by living a lie.

Because if there's one saying [amongst many] - that holds true, it is: nice guys finish LAST!

In my honest [as well as expert, experiential + very high IQ]: opinion → you need a bit of darkness to fight the really dark people out there.

A person with the ‘Light Triad of Personality Traits’.

What is one thing which you cannot stop however hard you try?

Aside from that. BE A NICE GUY. BUT NOT *TOO* NICE.

ASPD persons are generally in a position of intense difficulty in functioning in society [that is NOT to say there ‘is no hope']. But. A lack of love and acceptance can ONLY be overcome by an even more authentic REVERSE of genuine love and acceptance.

[See *attached photos* → i.e. a) what even is ‘the light triad’, b) likewise, what's the dark, c) I have an equitable combination of a) and b), however *that's my result for the dark Triad test* {realistically speaking, however, Machiavellianism is the ONLY true absolutely worthwhile knowledge to have in one's life} i.e. nice guys finish last… and if you finish last… y'all gonna get anything done? For yourself? Or anyone? Nup].

I’m British and I'm hella bummed about it. Wish I was American or even Canadian, ’cause let’s be real, Canada’s gonna end up part of the States anyway. What should I do?